“When I look around I always learn something, and that is to be yourself always. Express yourself and have faith in yourself. Do not go out and look for a successful personality and duplicate it. Start from the root of your being and ask, how can I be me?” — Bruce Lee
Part of having an identity is constantly choosing to forego other identities. The same goes for success; succeeding in one opportunity is largely dependent on committing and therefore passing up on other opportunities.
Successful people often say, just be yourself. It takes time to learn yourself and improve at being yourself. The same as any skill or profession.
If you started with piano, then switched to flute after six months, and then picked up the violin after a year of the flute, and so on—then you’ll never be the best at any instrument. You’ll just be mediocre at a few.
The same goes for being yourself. If you are constantly seeing others and saying, oh, I want to be like that. And starting to model that person until you see another person that you want to be like. Then you’ll never be the best at being yourself. You’ll just be mediocre at being like other people.